Remember it’s Mum’s special day too…

Elizabeth Bessant couture for the mother of bride or groom

With the National Wedding Show only two weeks away exhibitors have been busy putting finishing touches to gorgeous gowns in every style and fabric imaginable to tempt the brides. Models are preparing to dazzle on the catwalk in dresses that are every brides dream. But what about the Mother of the Bride? Your mother will also be in the spotlight and needs to feel confident and stylishly comfortable as she greets the guests and stands next to her beautiful daughter in all the photographs.

There is also another dilemma – what would happen if one of the guests wears the same outfit as mother of the bride. If funds allow this is one time in your life to push the boat out and have something especially made for you.

Jan, mother of the bride, wearing Elizabeth Bessant couture

The benefits of choosing a designer to make you outfit are many. Your daughter’s wedding is a difficult occasion to dress for as there is so much pressure to get it right.

If you work with a designer you will be able to choose your style, colour and fabric – and she (or he) will be able to advise you on the right colour and style for your body shape and colouring. An expert will also help you to accessorise.

The finished outfit will be the perfect fit and length so you feel comfortable. And don’t underestimate how lovely it is to have the opportunity to be pampered with some ‘me time’ at your fittings. If you choose to take your daughter to the fittings there will be more mother and daughter time…and memories.

Haydn Gwynn, actor, wearing Elizabeth Bessant couture

As mother of the bride etiquette dictates that you choose the colour of your outfit before the Mother of the Groom.

Be kind don’t leave it to the last minute because you will keep the other mum in limbo – and she also wants to look her best.

If you would like some advice I will be happy to help – I will be on Stand C6 at the National Wedding Show, Olympia from the 17th to 19th February.